Hey Dr Sue — Why Are Guys So Against Things In Their Butts If That’s Where Their G-Spot Is?

That’s a good question.

First off, a lot of men don’t realize that their G-spot is up their butt. I’m going to start calling it the P-spot. I do this for a couple of reasons. The main one is because it’s more accurate. The male P-spot is the prostate gland. If you want to read more about my other reasons, check out this post.

Outside of not knowing that there is the possibility for a lot of pleasure by putting something up their butt, there are a few reasons why men may not be willing to do this.

One is that they’re afraid that if they stick something up their butt, it will get stuck there. This is a legitimate fear. There are posts that often float around on social media where medical staff talk about what they have in their “butt box.” These are the things that had to be removed from people’s butts.

Regardless of what sex you are, if you are inserting something in your butt make sure it either has a string or handle to pull it out with. Or use something with a flared base. This means that the base is wider than the opening it’s going in to.

There’s also a fear that butt play can hurt. And it can! But there are ways to limit pain. If you’re engaging in butt play, you want to make sure…