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Hey Dr Sue — What’s The Best Size Penis To Satisfy A Woman?

Sue Milstein
3 min readApr 1, 2024

First, it’s not just about penis size when it comes to satisfying a woman. If you think about female anatomy, there are a whole lot more nerve endings in the clitoris than there are inside the vagina. Like thousands more. So from a purely anatomical perspective, women are more likely to enjoy clitoral simulation then vaginal intercourse. And for many women, orgasms from clitoral stimulation are both more intense and more pleasurable. And also more common.

And you don’t need to have a penis present for a clitoral orgasm.

You can include clitoral stimulation during vaginal intercourse. This can be done with hands or with a sex toy.

Before I move on and talk about penis size, I want to point out two things. The first is that every woman is different. A really large penis might be an enjoyable experience for some women and not for others. Same for a smaller size penis. Some women may love those and some may not.

So we can’t just focus on penis size.

The second thing I want point out is that for some people, feeling connected to their partner is way more important than penis size. Having a partner who responds to her needs, having one who focuses on her pleasure and not his, may be more important than penis size.

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Sue Milstein
Sue Milstein

Written by Sue Milstein

Dr. Sue Milstein has a PhD in Human Sexuality Education and is the co-author of the 7th edition of "Human Sexuality: Making informed decisions."

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