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Hey Dr Sue — What Is Syntribation? Do Girls Really Masturbate By Leaning Over A Desk Or A Counter Corner?

Sue Milstein
2 min readDec 11, 2023

Syntribation is essentially when a person uses the pressure from squeezing their thighs together as a way of masturbating.

While we often talk about this with women, and that’s what you usually find on porn sites, some men can do this too.

What happens is that squeezing their thighs together creates pressure on the clit, or on the head of the penis. Some people may reach orgasm this way, some may not.

For many it’s not just about the pressure from their thighs, it’s also about contracting the pelvic floor muscles. The pelvic floor muscles (sometimes called PC muscles) hold the organs that are in your pelvis in place. Think things like the bladder, intestines, and rectum.

If you’ve ever heard someone talking about Kegel exercises, those are designed to target the PC muscles.

As to the second question, some girls masturbate by rubbing their clit against anything that provides enough pressure to make it feel good.

This may include furniture. It can also include the pressure from running water direct from a shower head.

If you’re asking yourself why women do that it’s because we as a society very rarely talk to women…

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Sue Milstein
Sue Milstein

Written by Sue Milstein

Dr. Sue Milstein has a PhD in Human Sexuality Education and is the co-author of the 7th edition of "Human Sexuality: Making informed decisions."

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