Hey Dr Sue — Oral Sex After Vaginal Sex

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I’ve been reading this morning one of the forums in women’s health that touches on many experiences of cumming in your sex partner and it spoke of many different subjects, however I’d did not mention one that I wanted to ask you personally about rather than look or appear odd, or strange, or worse posting openly on the site. In one form about cumming in your partner and cleaning up I guess to put it as nicely as I can there was a short section on cleaning up and my question is while I realize they were speaking hygiene cleanliness, there is something I and my wife have done for the last several years and I’m sure you have heard of it but with my wife and I it’s been a very erotic part of our love making that’s brought us much closer in our bond, when my wife and I make love and I ejaculate in her it has been our practice that I would then perform mo oral sex on her, and not to be gross or rude while I do this she squeezes her lower abdominal muscles and mostly empties herself out and it at first became much more of an erotic act to the two of us I can’t quite explain how it’s become so much more and brought us so much closer in our soul’s with one another. I guess my question is do I ask a doctor like yourself is this a safe act? is it clean, is it weird,?should I see a psychologist? I don’t know if it’s…