Hey Dr Sue — It Doesn’t Matter Who I Sleep With Or How Big His Dick Is. I Can’t Feel Him Inside Me.

Let me start by saying that this is really normal for women. Really normal. Women just don’t talk about it openly all that much.

One of the reasons why you might not feel him inside you is that there just aren’t a lot of nerve endings inside the vagina, and so a lot of women say that they can’t really feel penetration.

The majority of a woman’s nerve endings in the genital area are going to be on the outside, in the clitoris, not inside the vagina.

There are a couple of areas inside the vagina that may feel good when there’s pressure applied to them. Specifically I’m thinking of the G spot and the A spot.

The G spot is inside the vagina, right on the front wall. It’s not really a spot, it’s actually part of the internal portion of the clitoris. For that reason, I can’t give you any more specifics on location other than to say inside wall (belly button side), about a third of the way inside the vagina.

If your partner wants to try and stimulate that area, they should insert one or two fingers inside (not all the way in, remember, outer one third) and make a come here motion with their finger. Remember, they may not find it on the first try and that’s okay.