Hey Dr Sue — Is There a Difference Between a Dildo and a Vibrator?

Yes, and that difference can be summed up in one word — power.

Vibrators have a power source of some sort that make them vibrate. The type of power source it has could limit how you can use it. If it’s a plug into the wall while you use it vibrator, then it is definitely not safe for shower sex!

A dildo, which is usually phallic shaped, is any object that can be used for sexual stimulation. The only way it moves is if you (or your partner) move it. There’s no power source.

But a note of caution — when I say any object can be used for stimulation — just because it can be used doesn’t mean it should be! Just go online and you’ll find things labeled as dildos that definitely can cause harm if inserted into the vagina or the anus.

And that’s actually one of the things that dildos and vibrators have in common, there’s no real regulation of them (The FDA regulates devices used to treat medical issues, but not ones used for pleasure. So while there is an FDA approved vibrating/stimulator for men with erectile dysfunction, that’s not what I’m focusing on here). In terms of vibrators and dildos, while you may see phrases like “medical grade” and “FDA approved materials” the objects themselves aren’t regulated.