Hey Dr Sue — How To Make A Man Cum Fast With A Blow Job

I’m not sure you’re going to love this, but there’s really no one answer. This is because every man is different. And every situation is different. If it’s your first time with the partner just going down on them may be enough to get them to come really fast. For others it may take longer.

Try asking him what he likes. He may be able to direct you to do something that will make it even more enjoyable for him. And that might make him come faster. That could include maybe using your hands more, or changing speed. Some men like a little teeth involved, some men don’t.

Sometimes if he has a clearer view of you going down on him that could make it more exciting and make him come faster. You may want to consider using vibrating sex toys. And since a man’s p-spot is up his butt, some men may like it if you insert something in there while you’re giving him head. But I would definitely check with him about this before doing it. Some men just aren’t comfortable with ass play when it’s their own ass involved.

There’s also something to be said for the buildup that happens beforehand. The more excited he is going into it the more likely he is to come faster. So if there’s a lot of sexual teasing happening during the day that could get him so excited that he’s more likely to come faster. And that teasing can…