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Hey Dr Sue — How To Give A Blowjob
I have to admit that I was hesitant to answer this one, because I’m pretty sure that it’s going to get pulled down and I’m going to get yet another community violation email of some sort.
But whoever submitted this wants an answer, and I’m sure they’re not the only one. And I’m tired of the fear of censorship, so here goes (and hopefully you’ll actually be able to see this).
If you’ve never done it before, giving someone a blowjob can be a bit overwhelming. Your face is right up in their genitals and that means that you have to deal with smell, taste and hair. And since everyone’s bodies are different, this will probably be a different experience with every person.
And so before I get into the how to, I want to say that you have to be open to actually giving someone a blowjob. If you’re uncomfortable doing it, then it’s probably not going to be all that wonderful for you, or for them.
You may want to ease your way into it. Maybe do some touching and kissing around their penis, their balls, and their perineum. This is the area between the base of the penis and the top of their ball sack. Exploring can help you get comfortable with what your partner looks like, smells like and tastes like. Also, if you pay attention to their reaction as you explore, you may find that there are certain areas that they like…