Hey Dr Sue — There Isn’t Really A ‘G-Spot’ In My Ass. I Mean It Sorta Feels Good But It’s Not An Orgasm Feel.

I’m not sure if this is going to make you feel good or bad, but not having an orgasm from stimulating your G-spot is actually pretty normal.

For those of you reading who don’t know about the G-spot in your ass, let me explain. The male G-spot is the prostate gland. And when it’s stimulated it usually feels good. Although this isn’t true for everyone.

I don’t love calling it the male G-spot for two reasons. One, it can be confusing. The location of the G-spot is very different for men and women. The second is that people think that stimulating the male G-spot will cause mind blowing orgasms because that’s how we usually talk about the female G-spot.

I need to point out here that not every woman has a mind blowing orgasm when her G-spot is stimulated. In fact, some women don’t enjoy the feeling of their G-spot being stimulated at all.

So I’m going to refer to the male G-spot as the P-spot for the rest of this post. The P comes from prostate in case you were wondering.

Back to the question. If it felt good when the P-spot was stimulated, but not necessarily an orgasm feel, I would ask how you were stimulating it.